Stories from Mom

Mar. 5th, 2026 09:56 am
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When mom called me last night she told me a crazy story about one of her neighbors.

The neighbor (who is in her 80s) was going through her retirement accounts with her daughter and discovered an account that she’d inherited from her late husband. Hubby died in 2022. But the account was from his girlfriend who had died in 2020 and left the husband her retirement account. Then when he died, his wife inherited $90K from the woman he was cheating on her with!

Apparently they started dating when the husband was 40 and the girlfriend was 18 (EWWWW!). I’m hazy on the details, but it sounds like they had one of those marriages where the husband worked in the city and the wife lived in Pawley’s Island and he came to visit on the weekends. Except that he never visited for the major holidays. It was so unusual that one of the other neighbors said that she thought the husband had a second family somewhere. And guess what, he did. He’d been living with this girlfriend for almost 40 years. And the wife only just found out about the affair. Because of the money trail, of the girlfriend leaving the money to the husband, and the husband then leaving the money to his wife. What a way to find out your husband was cheating on you, by inheriting the Other Woman’s life savings.

I swear, you can’t make up stories that are as weird as real life sometimes!

Signs Of Spring

Mar. 5th, 2026 02:37 pm
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 That was a mild winter. But very wet.

And now I'm moving into my lighter clothes- though in the expectation- but not the hope- that I may have to revert from time to time. The sunny weather makes me want to be doing things in the garden, but only things that aren't too arduous. Yesterday I surprised myself by proposing a visit to Hilliers- the garden centre on the further side of Stone Cross. 

Also yesterday a bumble bee got into the bedroom and had to be helped to escape. Bumble bees have been active for a week or more now. Bumble bees are precious......

crepitate

Mar. 5th, 2026 07:19 am
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crepitate (KREP-i-tayt) - v., to make a crackling or popping sound.


In medical contexts, this can be used specifically of, for example, arthritic joints or breathing during certain respiratory diseases. Taken in 1623 from Latin crepitātus, perfect passive participle of crepitare, to creak/rattle/clatter/crackle, frequentive of crepāre, to creak/crash/break with a noise.

---L.

March Questions

Mar. 5th, 2026 12:50 pm
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5. How many local birds can you name?

  • Robin
  • Blue tit
  • Great tit
  • Crows
  • Rooks
  • Jackdaws
  • Magpies
  • Pigeon
  • Wood dove
  • Collared dove
  • Blackbird
  • Starling
  • Wren
  • Red kite (a kind of hawk)
  • Buzzard

A tiny little wren lives in our garden and scurries around our fences. He is my favourite. But the family of blackbirds, and the robin who comes down to greet me when I go out are also my favourites. The rest of them are passing through, but the wren, robin and blackbirds live here with me.

Just One Thing (05 March 2026)

Mar. 5th, 2026 08:02 am
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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished! Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!

Waking

Mar. 5th, 2026 07:29 am
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The East was peach pink this sunrise, and the sky was full of planes.

I am barely awake, everything seems loud.

There's too much to think of. A cup of coffee might help.

Moonset

Mar. 5th, 2026 07:24 am
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 I moved to raise the blind.

"You'll like what you see." said Ailz, who had already looked out the window in the spare bedroom.

And I did. The moon, just a shavng past the full, was hovering over the hills. In the light of the rising sun its colour was a very pale apricot.

"Did you arrange that just for me?" I said.....

Community Thursdays

Mar. 5th, 2026 12:22 am
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This year I'm doing Community Thursdays. Some of my activity will involve maintaining communities I run, and my favorites. Some will involve checking my list of subscriptions and posting in lower-traffic ones. Today I have interacted with the following communities...


* Posted "Books" in [community profile] fantasy.

* Posted "News" in [community profile] fem_thoughts.

* Posted "March Meta Matters" in [community profile] fictional_fans.

Links: Small steps to resist

Mar. 4th, 2026 09:45 pm
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Birbs and Borbs Birds with queer flags. I'm eyeing the bisexual oystercatcher sticker. Pride is resistance!

Resist and Unsubscribe. Unsubscribe from services that support fascism. Every little bit helps! I didn't subscribe to any of these things in the first place, so I guess I've been resisting all along.

Taking action against AI harms by Anil Dash. Speaking can help get businesses off X and schools off ChatGPT.

(no subject)

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:38 pm
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Recently the toilet has been running and leaking. I have dealt with this before in another house. You need to replace the chain and flapper. Of course, the system was attached differently from the one I'd done before. Instead of just hooking on to another part, this was slipped over an end piece and you had to lift it over. I learned that on Youtube.I didn't have the hand strength to do that so I had to get out TOOLS. A box cutter, pliers, etc and so on. Finally got the old piece off and went to the store to get a new one.

I chose one, I do want to mention that I have to get on my knees to turn the water on and off, just to mention it. So it's installed and the noisy toilet is silent. I still have to shorten the chain to make it perfect, it's sort of jerryrigged now, and that will be fixed in the near future.

Next Sunday

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:37 pm
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Club Mud Studio Sale!


Zoom

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:07 pm
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Things have not slowed down.

This should be evident by the vast number of posts I have not done here since, oh, mid-February. I'd been steadily building up a stock of pots in the studio for a late March or early April firing, interspersed with afternoons desultorily working on taxes. Visits to the dentist slowly, incrementally getting ready for the premolar implant that's finally gonna be finished next week.

Then everything blew up.

I got an email from my gallery in Olympia; they'd asked about a squirrel tall mug back in February, right after I'd loaded the kiln. Didn't have one, offered to put one in my next firing. They said that'd be fine, it would give them time to put an order together.

A thousand-dollar wholesale order. (That's $2000 worth of pots at retail). So I had to make another dozen serving bowls. Nine pasta serving bowls. Three more colanders, and I broke my hole-cutter and had to go down to Oregon Art Supply for a new one. I'd already made 60 tall mugs, so diverting 18 to them wouldn't be that hard, and I'd be making soup bowls regardless. Honey jars I'm pretty sure I have left over from the last firing. But between this order, an eight-place dinner set and platters that didn't fit in last time, plus Empty Bowls for Food for Lane County, there's going to be precious little space for more pots for Saturday Market.

Club Mud's studio sale is coming up in early March, so I needed to sort out some pots for them. I've precious few seconds at the moment, so I planned to pick out firsts that I had most of, so as not to handicap my Saturday Market opening. Backed the van out of the carport and over a screw, so got an extremely flat tire. The bead was broken, so I couldn't just inflate it and drive to Les Schwab, had to jack it up. For some reason, the body came up off the ground, but the wheel didn't, something something rear suspension? I had to put a second jack under the axle, but the car doesn't have a jack, just some sort of strap, and how does that even work? Wound up stealing the jack from Denise's papermaking press, and finally got the tire off and down to Schwab's. They fix flats for free, which was a bright spot, and one of the reasons I go back to them when we need new tires.

And now it's March, I'm still only halfway through taxes, I had to preside over the last Club Mud meeting because the president was out with pneumonia. I'm going to the dentist on Tuesday, I'm flying back to Wisconsin next Friday to meet with nephew and wife to try to get a handle on the Brookfield house situation, and also steal a day to go see my mother. I volunteered to run an Empty Bowls Throw-athon at Club Mud the Saturday after I get back, and sometime before April 4 I have to get the van sorted and restocked for Market. And I only finally got all the pots home from my last firing today.

But there's a wren who's been singing in the blackberries outside my studio, the waxwings came through yesterday, and a chickadee has rediscovered our seed feeder. Violets have been blooming outside my studio door since late February, and the first three daffodils are open.

It could be worse.


Knitting!

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:25 pm
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I knit a row yesterday and a row and a bit today. That's a lot for the new me!

more about the New Orleans trip

Mar. 4th, 2026 10:56 pm
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The trip to New Orleans was very good for [personal profile] cattitude, who had an easier tiee finding food he could eat and enjoy than Adrian and I, but the few days of warm weather did us good as well. (And then the trip home was physically difficult and painful for Adrian, unfortunately.)

I did more walking each day, including but not only the travel days, than I expected or planned, and found it less difficult than I would have predicted.

Saturday afternoon we met my brother at House of Blues, because they had outdoor music and a performer he liked. That was fun, and Adrian enjoyed dancing with an enthusiastic stranger. I think that was the day we took a streetcar downtown in search of lunch, only to find lines for the relatively small number of places with outdoor seating. But I'd wanted to ride a streetcar--streetcars are part of the New Orleans transit network, not just a tourist attraction, so we could get one a couple of blocks from our hotel.

Our hotel had a courtyard, which was part of why Cattitude chose it. The courtyard had an unexpected, charming cat. The drum circle I mentioned in the previous post was in the park across the street from our hotel, which is part of why Mark recommended it.

Also, the New Orleans airport terminal plays music, not very loudly, over the PA system, which is entirely fitting for an airport named after Louis Armstrong, and much better than what comes over the PA at most airports.

Daily Happiness

Mar. 4th, 2026 07:55 pm
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1. Did another store visit today. I hadn't been to this store for quite some time (I think not since the summer) so it was nice to have an opportunity to check it out again, and just in general to get out of the office and do something different. Tomorrow I plan to do a store visit, too, but just the store down the street from me, so at least there won't be a long drive involved.

2. Carla made miso marinated salmon for dinner tonight, which we haven't had in ages. I forgot how good it is!

3. Carla got some Brooks shoes a few months ago and has really been enjoying them and then it turns out that they occasionally release Disney collabs, and their most recent ones include Rapunzel themed ones. Rapunzel is one of her favorite Disney characters and pink and purple are some of her favorite colors. Plus they actually have them in larger sizes, which is so rare for cute shoes like these. They were released to buy in person at the runDisney event in Disney World this past weekend and just finally showed up on the website today and she was able to order some. And in this instance having larger feet actually worked in her favor, since a lot of the smaller sizes were sold out already.

4. The other day after I got the new shelf set up in the garage, Carla put a couple Star Wars legos on it, and then decided she wanted it to be a Star Wars themed shelf (I was already thinking we should organize some of the lego displays since right now they're just sort of wherever we had space at the time they were built, rather than displayed thematically, so that works out perfectly). It's still in progress, but I think it looks pretty nice. (And I really do love that shelf.)



5. Tuxie's been enjoying the long grass we have after all the rain last month.

Five Random Things Makes a Post

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:48 pm
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A couple of weeks before Lent began, I changed the URL of my Facebook bookmark, so that now instead of opening up my Feed, I open up my Wall instead. That way it’s easier to check my notifications without immediately getting sucked into Facebook. So far it seems to be working nicely, when I do occasionally click on Facebook, I’m not seeing any of that addictive content, just my own posts and if I’ve had any messages or reactions.

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A popular Catalan saying for use before a meal is menja bé, caga fort i no tinguis por a la mort! ("Eat well, shit heartily, and don't be afraid of death!").
Source

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Meiselas and his brothers, Brett (a former video editor for The Ellen DeGeneres Show) and Jordy (who previously worked in marketing), along with about 30 other contributors — including former Trump lawyer turned critic Michael Cohen — pump out videos on YouTube about every 90 minutes and blanket other platforms, including Instagram, TikTok and Substack, with their content.

MeidasTouch is raking in millions of dollars in advertising revenue a year — Meiselas wouldn't say exactly how much — by tapping into an audience of frustrated progressives, some of whom feel abandoned by traditional media.


Every 90 minutes? That’s AI slop speed! How is this the top rated left-leaning podcast? And this guy is making millions of dollars? *shakes my damn head*
Source

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At lunchtime today I ran out and bought groceries and lunch at Chipotle. OMG, it was GLORIOUS! Fifty-six degrees out and sunny. I’m so glad I made the point of getting out, because we’re due for rain/snow/clouds the next couple of days, and I was really needing a good dose of sunshine to help lift my mood.

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Mom called tonight to wish me an early Happy Birthday because they’re going to be out tomorrow night. She also wanted to have me look out for my birthday card (and check) and to let her know when it arrives so she can stop worrying about it. I'm having one of those big birthdays that ends in a Zero this year. Doesn't seem possible that I'm this old. =P

Reading Wednesday

Mar. 4th, 2026 08:28 pm
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Hacked my way through Cabell's Figures of Earth and wondered why I did. Yes he's of his time and yes he's the generic Southern Gentleman but sheesh why does he go on and on about howcum wimmen never measure up to the romantic notion men have of them, and howcum all women want to remake their husbands, and I wonder why did generations of people marry when they didn't even like the opposite sex. Yes I know why, but. Like Blackwood's mother who at bloody eighteen married a widower with five kids, and whose mother-in-law made her life a misery because she didn't think her good enough for her son. Like, who else would marry a blubbery seal hunter with five kids, huh?

Anyway, finished two Dr. Priestleys as well. Am currently reading Lost Souls Meet Under a Full Moon, which I think I'd rather read in Japanese if my library had it in same. The translation is OK, it's just... very Japanese. Am taking my time with it to fight the instinct that says 'five other people are waiting for this copy I must finish it ASAP.' No I needn't. I have it for three weeks and I can take all of them.

Because next is Strange Houses which is even more Japanese and has even more people waiting for me to finish it.

Read "Find a Way Forward"

Mar. 4th, 2026 07:30 pm
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My poem "Find a Way Forward" has been published in [community profile] first_nations_freaks
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